Valentine Special

February 3rd, 2012 by WinnieJ | Permalink

 

As Valentines Day approach, may are feeling a variety of emotions. While some are happy in their dream relationship, others are sadden by the separation from their loved ones. However, the main thing to remember about Valentines Day is that it is simply just another day. I have heard of lovers doing rediculous things because they were unable to spend this one day with their loved ones. I am simply urging you to not get overly consumed with this day. There are 364 more days in the year. It is much more important to focus on these days, than on that one overly romanticized day. So, do not get caught us longing for this overly romanticized day. Remember that your goal is to reunite with your man for life, not for one night. So, stick to the plan even on Valentines Day.

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How To Get Your Man To Return Your Call

July 21st, 2011 by WinnieJ | Permalink

Getting your ex to return your phone calls can be the trickiest part of winning them back. There are a number of things that you must consider. First of all, you need to be absolutely sure that your timing is perfect. In the case of getting your man back, timing is truly important. The program gives you an overall plan and a specific guideline to determine when is the right time to make contact. Check out the program here.

 

If you make contact either too soon or not soon enough, you will do more harm than good. A second thing to keep in mind is: do you have a plan of how to proceed once you do make that initial contact. See, it does no good for you to get the timing right, and to convince your ex to return you call and then have nothing to follow through with. You must have a complete and sound POA (Plan Of Action).

 

Additional guidelines you must consider, please avoid any semblance of the following scenarios:

Scene 1: (Begging)

“Baby please call me. I need to talk to you. This is the 20th time I have called today. What’s wrong? What did I do? If you just let me know what I did then I won’t do it again. Baby call me as soon as you get this message. In case you forgot, my number is….”

 

Scene 2: (The Emergency)

“Baby call me before 5. I need some information. It is absolutely urgent. Ok. Bye”Trust me, neither of those usually work. No you need the ideal reason to make that first call.  

 

Ok. So I assuming you have the timing down perfectly, a good POA, and a very good excuse for calling, there is an additional point you must consider. Are you emotionally prepared to make contact. Once you call your ex, you do not want to sound nervous or strained. Quite the contrary, you want to give the impression of being fully confident and in control. So, just make sure that you are ready to make that initial call. If you need additional help, click here for my complete program.

 

We are now ready to discover how to make contact in a way that will make you look good and will motivate your ex to return your call. We will be implementing two psychologically motivating techniques: Curiosity and self- interest. We will both pique their curiosity and act in their, seemingly, best interest. Your message will go something like this:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let

you know I appreciate what you did for

me. Call me because I want to thank you

in person.”

Can you see how this message will pique their curiosity. They will be wondering: ‘what did I do and how does she plan to show me her appreciation’. A bonus to this type of message is that it is presented in a pleasant tone of voice. Therefore, it will leave the recipient with pleasant feelings. In my program I discuss the importance of having on pleasant interactions with your ex. Like I mentioned earlier, you must be prepared with a complete POA. Know what to do once your ex returns your call. Determine what the something is that you appreciate and also how you plan to show your appreciation.

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Top 5 Reasons Men Leave Women

July 16th, 2011 by WinnieJ | Permalink

Men leave women for a number of reasons. However, there are 5 reasons a man will quickly leave a woman. In order to understand these reasons, one must first understand the male psyche. Believe it or not, men are a lot different from women. What will make a woman happy can often make a man very uncomfortable or even miserable. This is a fact that most women tend to forget.Just as we experience difficulty understanding men, they also have a hard time understanding women. This brings us to reason # 5 that men leave women.

5. Men Leave Women Because They Do Not Understand Them:

This brings us back to the fact that men and women are very different in many ways. While women are very proficient at deciphering nuances in communication such as voice inflection, gestures and body languages, many men are not that skillful. So, they usually rely upon what the womans says rather than looking out for cues such as body language which may contradict what she actually says. So, if a woman is unhappy about something her man has done she will usually begin to behave in a way that is aimed at getting his attention. She may pout or refuse to talk to him. When he asks her what is wrong, she will invariably say “nothing”. Because he is inept at reading the physical signs that indicate her dissatisfaction with him, he is left to assume that everything is ok. This will often lead to the woman finally confronting the man and the man scratching his head trying to figure out what went wrong. Over time the man loses interest and stops trying to please the woman.

4. Men Leave Women Because He No Longer Feels Appreciated

Men like to be appreciated. This is a major source of attraction in the beginning of most relationships. However, throughout the course of the relationship a woman may begin to take the man for granted or fail to communicate to him the fact that she values him. This will result in the man being dissatisfied. Ultimately, he will seek a partner that he feels appreciates him.

3. Men Leave Women Because They Become Overly Emotional (Nagging)

As I mentioned earlier, men and women are different. When there is a problem or crisis, a man usually likes to sit quitely while he analyzes the situation. On the other hand, a woman usually likes to talk through her problem. This difference can often lead to conflict between the couple. The man may reject this intrusion into what is his time to reflect. On the other hand, this rejection will often create emotional anxiety in the woman and lead her to nag the man until he relents.

2. Men Leave Women Because They Are Too Needy

One of the biggest mistakes women make is to make their relationship the center of their resistance. Many women seem to lose their sense of self once they fall in love. They stop spending time with their friends and family. They will sometimes lose interest in hobbies that they once cherished. This leaves them with a lot of free time which they usually want to fill up with their man. Their man becomes their everything. He is their source of entertainment, their confidant, their lover, their friend ect. ect. A woman will expect a man to spend all of his free time with her. However, the man usually does not share this need to be joined at the hips. He will want some space and he would also like to spend times hanging out with ‘the boys’. A woman might take offense at this. However, when a man has enough space and is allowed to just hang out with his friends, it will actually benefit the relationship rather than hurt it. When a man is away from his mate, he has time to miss her and to appreciate her. Too much togetherness kills the attraction for a man.

1. Men Leave Women Because They No Longer Feel Attracted Or Connected To Them

Men are very visual creatures. They are motivated by what they see. Therefore, a man will lose interest in a woman that he is not physically attracted to. It does not matter how smart, funny, loving, insightful or caring that she is. If he is not physically attracted to her, the relationship is destined to fail. Therefore, a lack of attraction is the number 1 reason that men leave women. Men must maintain a physical attraction for the woman in his life or he will lose interest. It is also this attraction which spurs the sense of connection that men feel. Although attraction is a must for any relationship to succeed, but, it is not enough on its own. A man must also feel connected to his mate on a deep level. He must believe that she understands him and that he understands her. He must also believe that it would be difficult, if not impossible, to find this level of deep understanding with another woman. He must feel as if he has found the one woman who truly gets him. Check out more articles at: http://www.getyourmanbacktoday.com. I hope that your found this article helpful.

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Become the Woman Who Holds the Keys to Get Your Man Back

July 14th, 2011 by WinnieJ | Permalink

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Have you ever noticed that there are certain women who never look for ways to get your man back? They always seem to have the opposite problem (getting rid of men). These women are not necessarily the most beautiful or the most accomplished. However, they never lack male companionship and they never chase men. They allow the men to do all of the chasing. These women seem to possess a deep understanding of men and what they want or need out of a relationship. Well, click here to discover the secrets to becoming the woman men adore.

One thing most of these women seem to have in common is that they never get too emotionally involved in their romantic relationship. Although they appear to be warm and caring in their relationship, they also manage to maintain a certain level of detachment. These women seem to exude an aura of self-confidence that seems to say to their man: “I can take you or leave you.” Men recognize this persona and they not only accept it, they seem to be drawn to this type of woman. A woman like this will never have a problem trying to win her boyfriend back, simply because he will never leave her. She is not wasting her time trying to figure out “how to get my man back.” No, she is too busy with her own life.  As a matter of fact, he would be left scratching his head trying to figure out how to keep his girlfriend. It is this very personality feature that keeps her man captivated. He knows that if he moves out of the picture or stops doing all of the pursuing, she will simply move on. Because she places such a high value on herself she forces him to do the same. Although some women are born with this innate knowledge, it does not mean that they rest of us cannot learn their secrets such as:

  • How to push his emotional buttons so he comes crawling back to you…
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Understanding Male Psychology is the Key to How to Get Him Back

July 14th, 2011 by WinnieJ | Permalink

 

Believe it or not, the easiest part of any breakup is to get your man back. The hard part is keeping him. The key to accomplishing this is understanding the male psyche. As women, we tend to believe that men think like we do and respond to things the same way that we do. However, this is simply not true. Various studies have shown that men and women are very different. They differ in what attracts, motivates and retain their interest. Have you noticed that the very man that you detest is the one that will call you and pursue you relentlessly. There is a simple reason for this and one that it will serve you well to remember. Men are by nature hunters. They enjoy the hunt and the chase. This also translate to their romantic relationships. Men place a higher value on things or people in which they have invested the most energy, money, time, and effort. Therefore, the longer he chases after you and the more effort he has to expend in order to obtain you leads to him placing a greater premium upon your relationship. By understanding male psychology, you will understand what to do to draw your man back to you.

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  • What exactly goes on inside a mans mind
  • The exact psychological “hot buttons” you need to push in order to get him crawling back to you and exactly how to keep him in love and addicted to you. It’s surprisingly easier than you might think.
  • The #1 most overlooked secret for getting your ex boyfriend back (ignore this one at your own risk).
  • The REAL reason he dumped you. It’s definitely NOT what you think!
  • Five secrets most women will never know about men.
  • Why you should forget almost everything men tell you when it comes to what they “say” they want in a woman.
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Get Your Man Back

July 14th, 2011 by WinnieJ | Permalink

Click here to find out exactly what to do to get your man back

Trust me I know exactly how you are feeling. I think that most women have experienced the devastating despair of losing your man and wanting to get your man back. However, I am here to show you exactly what steps to take to get back with your ex. These methods have been proven to be effective at getting lovers back together. I remember my first “break up”. I was totally devastated. I felt as if the world as I knew it was over. I could not sleep or eat. Everything I saw reminded me of my ex-boyfriend. My singular focus was finding a way to get him back. But, all of these bad emotions pushed me into making all of the wrong moves. My first mistake, and likely yours also, was to call my ex-boyfriend repeatedly. When he stopped answering my telephones calls (because he realized that I was behaving like a psycho) I decided that perhaps I should drive by his house to see if he was home. When he finally answered my phone call, I made my biggest mistake of all: I begged him to take me back. When I look back I realize that rather than drawing my ex-boyfriend back to me, I was actually pushing him further away from me. Click here to find out why these methods never work to get your lover back.

If you want to get your man back, please do not follow my example. Stop whatever you are doing and take notes! The first thing you need to do to get your ex back: take a deep breath and relax. Trust me, it may sound too simplistic, however, it is absolute key to your having any chance of getting back with your lover. In order to get your boyfriend back, you must be in control of your emotions and thinking rationally. If you are desperate he will sense it and run away from you rather than too you. The simple truth is: men want what they cannot have and what they must work very hard to obtain. They tend to value what they must put effort into getting. The second thing you must do is to avoid, not seek, contact with your ex. Under no circumstances, (unless it is a true emergency) should you be calling your ex. He must realize that you are fine without him. The third thing you should do is get involved with something totally foreign to you. Do something adventurous. This will serve two purposes, it will take your mind off of your ex and it will make him realize that you are fine without. In addition to these first three steps, click here to find out exactly what to do next to get your man back.Trust me, this method is foolproof. Although I had made every mistake possible, once I got my hands on this formula, I had my ex-boyfriend eating out of them. Until this day, my ex-boyfriend still calls me and trying to win me back.

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